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Remixing Retirement: Bold steps beyond the 9-5

Remixing Retirement: Bold Steps Beyond the 9–5 (with Wendy Leggett)

Retirement isn’t an ending—it’s your next remix. In this episode, Wendy Leggett, Professional Certified Coach and founder of Conflux Retirement Coaching, flips the script on traditional retirement. We talk about identity beyond a big title, planning a meaningful “post-career” chapter, and how to build purpose (capital P optional!) through small, intentional moves.

What you’ll learn

  • Why financial planning is necessary—but not sufficient—for a great retirement

  • The biggest misconceptions about retirement (and how to avoid them)

  • How to navigate identity shifts when you leave a long career—or exit unexpectedly

  • A simple framework (PERMA) to design a purposeful, energizing next act

  • The power of boundaries and saying “no” so you can say “yes” to yourself

  • Why a 1–3 year “runway” sets you up to leave on a high note

Timestamp guide

  • 0:00 Welcome & setup: rethinking retirement

  • 2:00 Meet Wendy + her remix story (corporate → coaching)

  • 4:30 The “club sandwich” generation: caregiving while career-shifting

  • 6:30 Values misalignment and knowing when it’s time to go

  • 9:15 What a retirement life coach actually does (hint: not finances)

  • 11:00 Myths: “Money’s handled, I’m good” & the all-leisure vs. doom narrative

  • 13:00 Purpose, big “P” vs. little “p”—and finding meaning in small ways

  • 16:30 When to start: the 1–3 year retirement runway (+ longer for business owners)

  • 18:30 Leaving on a high note: legacy, values, springboards

  • 20:00 Bucket lists, “to-explore” lists, and taking a gap-season to experiment

  • 22:00 Boundaries: the gift of “no” in retirement

  • 23:30 Unexpected exits, identity beyond work, and the PERMA model

  • 27:30 Play, curiosity, and pickleball: building new community & joy

  • 33:00 TV as a full-time job? Guarding your time, mind, and connections

  • 35:00 Wendy’s gift: No Regrets Retirement Workbook

  • 36:30 Final takeaways: Awareness → Intention → Momentum

Mic-drop moments

  • “If you are what you do, who are you when you don’t?”

  • “Be the CEO of you in retirement—design your days on purpose.”

  • “Saying no to something is saying yes to yourself.”

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